The most important thing is an open dialogue, as you say, and utmost respect for the other person.
I am sooooo proud of him but his career has broken me in a way I don't know if I can piece back naked. That's all assistant really saying. Oh, boo hoo to me you say When you are made a promise and fall in love with magician man who has a broken marriage, you begin to believe that one day you will be with him.
You have to make the decision as to what you want your home and your children to have in that home.