There are some left but most people don't even realize the thousands of dollars a year that go into keeping your job such as license renewels sometimes for several states if your practice in on a border and has more than one siteCME, malpractice and other insurance, hospital privileges or several if your practice has to cover several surgical sites and facilities in order to stay openetc.
If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else.
I disagree with the doctrines and practices of the LDS church. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away.
This includes both asking and offering assistance.